{"id":17478,"date":"2018-12-12T16:37:35","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T05:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/margiewarrellold.flywheelsites.com\/?p=17478"},"modified":"2018-12-12T16:37:35","modified_gmt":"2018-12-12T05:37:35","slug":"pursue-a-cause-bigger-than-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/margiewarrell.com\/pursue-a-cause-bigger-than-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Pursue A Cause Bigger Than Yourself!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Wired into our psychological DNA is the desire for security, safety <g class=\"gr_ gr_5 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"5\" data-gr-id=\"5\">and<\/g> status &#8211; which can put us in a <g class=\"gr_ gr_6 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation multiReplace\" id=\"6\" data-gr-id=\"6\">bind.<\/g> Because once our basic needs are met, we have a deep human hunger for meaning and purpose which can only be fulfilled by embracing vulnerability, and risking that very same sense of safety, security and status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Research shows that people who have connected to a purpose that is greater than themselves&#8211; bolstering their ego\u00ad or&nbsp;furthering&nbsp;their&nbsp;power &#8211;are happier, more contented, enjoy richer relationships and are more resilient in the face of adversity than those who haven\u2019t. They are also far more inspiring leaders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/raisethebar.co.uk\/speaker\/linda-cruse\/\">Linda Cruse<\/a>\u00a0is one such leader, albeit not a conventional one. Described by Richard Branson as someone who \u201cmakes the impossible, possible,\u201d Linda has spent the last\u00a0two decades\u00a0living out of a suitcase on the frontlines of <g class=\"gr_ gr_13 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"13\" data-gr-id=\"13\">humanitari<\/g><g class=\"gr_ gr_15 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"15\" data-gr-id=\"15\"><g class=\"gr_ gr_13 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"13\" data-gr-id=\"13\">an<\/g> c<\/g>rises. Two of her\u00a0innovative\u00a0initiatives, Be The Change and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/therace4good.com\">Race4Good<\/a>, tap the brain trust within <g class=\"gr_ gr_14 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"14\" data-gr-id=\"14\">business<\/g> to elevate challenged communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As&nbsp;Linda&nbsp;shared with me during our&nbsp;very inspiring conversation on <a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/021-linda-cruse-when-you-dare-to-change-world-impossible\/id1435730743?i=1000425314473&amp;mt=2\">my&nbsp;Live Brave Podcast<\/a>,&nbsp;&#8220;Tapping into the expertise,&nbsp;entrepreneurial skills, ingenuity&nbsp;and passion&nbsp;within business&nbsp;makes a far bigger impact than any size check.&#8221; Organizations <g class=\"gr_ gr_6 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"6\" data-gr-id=\"6\">such<\/g>&nbsp;as Deloitte, Nestle, GlaxoSmithKline <g class=\"gr_ gr_8 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"8\" data-gr-id=\"8\">and<\/g> Virgin have got on board, contributing their commercial&nbsp;acumen&nbsp;and innovation, not just their dollars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/margiewarrell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Linda-Cruse-Blog.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17480\"\/><figcaption>Linda Cruse in Peru and in post-cyclone Pakistan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, we\u2019re not all like Linda &#8211; whose book&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0730365808\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0730365808&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wwwmargiewarr-20&amp;linkId=0f9cd29cf6db01a0729eee455edfe52d\">Leading on the Frontline<\/a>&nbsp;gets to the heart of courageous leadership. Nor do we all have some epiphany moment as she did many years ago when she experienced temporary blindness and realized she couldn&#8217;t&nbsp;go on as she was. But just because most of us aren\u2019t struck by a &#8220;blinding stroke of insight&#8221; that compels us&nbsp;to over-haul our life&nbsp;doesn&#8217;t mean we can&#8217;t take it upon ourselves to&nbsp;take a hard look&nbsp;at how we&#8217;re &#8220;doing life.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gallop&nbsp;employee engagement&nbsp;surveys consistently&nbsp;find that a large majority of&nbsp;people&nbsp;go to work each day pushed along more by inertia than inspiration. In a&nbsp;recent study in the U.K.,&nbsp;over 90% of respondents reported&nbsp;that they\u2019re often just going through the motions, as though on&nbsp;auto-pilot, feeling anything from mildly disinterested to outright disillusioned by&nbsp;how they&#8217;re spending&nbsp;the best hours of their days and best years of their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, it\u2019s easy to get caught in the trap of thinking we don\u2019t have any choice. That&#8217;s&nbsp;rarely the case. More often it&#8217;s a convenient&nbsp;rationalization that spares us the inconvenience&nbsp;of&nbsp;making a change.&nbsp; &#8220;The truth is, we&nbsp;always&nbsp;have a choice,\u201d&nbsp; Linda said, recounting a stark moment of choice that she faced when she arrived in Thailand after the devastating 2004 Tsunami that killed 230,000 people and left millions more homeless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was in the taxi heading to the worst hit area. There was devastation everywhere. I asked the taxi driver to pull over as emotionally I didn\u2019t know I could go on to the&nbsp;survivors camp where 5,000 people in a terrible state were waiting for help. I got out of the car and sat on the edge of a cliff overlooking the sea. It was full of dead bodies, just floating. I felt overwhelmed by the enormity of the suffering and what&nbsp;I was heading into. Part of me wanted to tell the taxi driver to take&nbsp;me back to the airport. But then I flashed back to when I was 18, in nurse training, and my Matron said to me: \u2018It\u2019s not about you. It\u2019s about what you\u2019re here to do\u2026 to be of service and help others.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3HEGz8lyNGA\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We all arrive at moments in our life where we are torn between retreating to the safety of the known and the possibilities of the unknown &#8211; between comfort and contribution; between security and service; between seeking admiration&nbsp;and&nbsp;looking&nbsp;good and&nbsp;risking status&nbsp;and&nbsp;doing&nbsp;good. Between love and fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t need to look very far to see that the psychological tug toward consolidating power, protecting pride and safeguarding status often wins. &nbsp;Yet it begs the question: At what cost to the state of our heart? And at what cost to the hearts of those whom we might otherwise serve?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The fact&nbsp;that millions of Americans are wealthier today than ever before&nbsp;yet suffer&nbsp;higher rates&nbsp;of depression&nbsp;and&nbsp;greater&nbsp;loneliness&nbsp;(with young adults&nbsp;feeling the most alone), tells us that something is amiss. It\u2019s wonderful to have wealth \u2013 it buys us choices and enables us to do more good. But if our lives revolve solely around the accumulation of it, we can end up living a life of immaculate mediocrity &#8211; living superficially in the shallows and starved for a purpose that transcends anything &nbsp;anything fame or fortune or Facebook fans can provide. As German physician Albert&nbsp;Schweitzer once said, &#8220;I&nbsp;don&#8217;t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one can discern the right path for you. That\u2019s your responsibility alone. However, whatever path you choose, it\u2019s imperative to regularly&nbsp;reflect on whether the payoff you get from staying on your current life course is worth what you\u2019re giving up.&nbsp;Too often the short term gratification we get from sticking with the status quo overrides the far deeper soul-level satisfaction we would get from changing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are not all called to&nbsp;live on the front lines of crisis. Nor are we all called to run a company, launch a start-up, write a book or teach children. But each of us are called in our own way to use our unique gifts to elevate the human condition. Only when we do so can we truly elevate our own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As you consider the years ahead of you&#8211;your future that is yet to be written&#8211;I invite you to view your options through the lens of where you can make the&nbsp;most meaningful impact for others. How&nbsp;might you better employ your talents, expertise, resources and hard-won wisdom to be of greater service for others?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I have found myself on many occasions, the more we use our gifts to help others get what&nbsp;they&nbsp;want, the more we attract and receive what&nbsp;we&nbsp;want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A cautionary note: This is not always a comfortable endeavor. Sometimes it can leave us feeling vulnerable and unsure and, like Linda on that cliff top looking over a sea of dead bodies, out of our depth. Yet only when we dare to step toward the possibilities that&nbsp;pull hardest on our hearts can we ever come to discern real threats from imaginary ones,&nbsp;and discover how few reasons we ever have to feel afraid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/margiewarrell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Need-Christmas-Gift-Ideas_.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17485\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you still have presents to buy, I\u2019ve got just the solution!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/margiewarrell.com\/books\/\" target=\"_blank\">Make Your Mark<\/a>&nbsp;is ideal for anyone who&#8217;s feeling stuck&nbsp;or wants to change direction but isn\u2019t sure where to start.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/margiewarrell.com\/books\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Brave<\/a>&nbsp;is perfect for the busy people in your life who\u2019d value a quick dose of inspiration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can pick them up on&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0730319180\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0730319180&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=wwwmargiewarr-20&amp;linkId=DDRQOTU4NRH7SKWC\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon<\/a>&nbsp;or with free international shipping via&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bookdepository.com\/Make-Your-Mark-Margie-Warrell\/9780730343233\" target=\"_blank\">Book Depository<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wired into our psychological DNA is the desire for security, safety and status &#8211; which can put us in a bind. 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