Train The Brave:<\/strong> Write down a specific goal you would like to achieve in the next 6-12 months. If you want to use a different time frame, go right ahead! All that matters is that your goal inspires you deeply (even if it also scares you!)<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n <\/p>\n
2. Identify Your Deepest Fear<\/strong>
\nFear is not a \u2018bad\u2019 thing. Far from it! Rather, it\u2019s a question of whether or not your fears are actually serving you (protecting you from REAL threats to your well-being) or if they are holding you back and keeping you stuck, tip toeing through life and living, as Thoreau described, a \u201clife of quiet desperation.\u201d So what is it that you are afraid might happen if you begin taking action in the direction of your goals and dreams? That you will be humiliated, that you\u2019ll go broke, be rejected or \u2018found out\u2019 as inadequate? Whatever your fear, own it. Unless you own your fears, they will own you. The only way to conquer fear is to look it right in the eye, then to step forward in its presence.<\/p>\n\n- Train The Brave:<\/strong> Write down what you are afraid might happen if you take action toward your goal.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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3. Be Honest About The Cost Of Inaction<\/strong>
\nDon\u2019t kid yourself, inaction, is increasingly costly. Research has identified a psychological phenomenon whereby we human beings tend toward discounting the cost of our choices, even when it\u2019s obvious they are not benefiting us. The reason why? Reality isn\u2019t pretty. The result? We tell ourselves that everything\u2019s hunky dory when really, it\u2019s anything but, and all the while life sails along in a direction that\u2019s taking us far from the life we\u2019d truly love to live. The very act of acknowledging that we are stuck or unhappy is an act of courage all its own. However, getting present to the steep price you are paying for letting fear pilot your life (or even part of it!) is absolutely crucial to re-creating it the way you want it to be. Only when you have done so can you find the guts to put your fears in their rightful place and be able to rise above them and into action toward whatever tugs at your heart.<\/p>\n\n- Train The Brave:<\/strong> Write down how you will feel about yourself if you do nothing. Remember, if nothing changes, nothing changes!<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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4. Break Your Big Vision Into Small Steps<\/strong>
\nTo paraphrase Martin Luther King, Jr., you don\u2019t have to see the whole staircase, just the first step. So when it comes to doing something that leaves a wide cavernous gap between where you are now and where you ultimately want to be, don\u2019t think that you need to know how to bridge it before you take the first step forward.<\/p>\nWhat matters most is knowing the direction in which you want to head, even if you aren\u2019t clear on a specific end-point destination. Once you know the direction, then think about what you would like to be doing 12 months from now that would move you toward it. Then think about what you\u2019d be doing six months from now. Then two months from now. Then two weeks from now. Then tomorrow. Then today.<\/p>\n
\n- Train The Brave:<\/strong> Write down ten things you can do in the next seven days to move you into action. Repeat weekly!<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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5. Create Accountability<\/strong>
\nEnlist a support team, hire a coach, recruit an accountability partner or join a group of like-minded people. Just make sure you have people around you who are committed to you, and are willing to get on your case if you start to veer off the rails and slip into excuse-laden procrastination.<\/p>\n\n- Train The Brave:<\/strong> Ask at least one person to hold you to account for the 10 things you wrote down above, and set up a weekly call-in with them to keep you on track.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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6. Walk With Giants<\/strong>
\nThe people you surround yourself with have a huge impact on how you see yourself, your challenges and the world. If you want to live a bigger life, you need to surround yourself with people who \u2018think big\u2019 and will encourage you to do the same. Accordingly, you\u2019ll want to avoid any people in your life who may discourage your actions and step on your dreams. While they are really just afraid that you will leave them behind, as you start out, you should steer clear of people who will fuel anxiety and feed self-doubt. Never let anyone diminish you or your dreams.<\/p>\n\n- Train The Brave:<\/strong>\u00a0Research networks, associations and communities of like-minded people whom you could join for education, collaboration, and encouragement.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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7. Exit Your Safety\u00a0Zone…\u00a0Daily<\/strong>
\nCourage is like a muscle. The more you act with it, the stronger it becomes. Likewise, every time you take action in the presence of your fear, you dilute its power and amplify your own.<\/p>\nBut let\u2019s face it, creating change in your life is a little like getting a 747 off the ground\u2026 it takes a lot of energy up front to build forward momentum and get you airborne. Expecting that it\u2019s going to be easy from the get go can set you up for disappointment. Instead of expecting to see immediate results, focus instead on the fact that you are simply in action and every day, doing one thing that takes you out of your comfort zone, and moving in the direction that inspires you.<\/p>\n
Achieving anything worthwhile takes thousands of small brave steps and sheer hard work. But as you start taking action, you will discover that you are capable of more than you thought, and whole new realms of possibility open for you. It begins with a single act of courage. Followed by another. Then another.<\/p>\n
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